Leben als Christ

Sollte eine Frau jemanden heiraten, der ein Problem mit Pornografie hat?

Heath Lambert, auf dessen Buch zu diesem Thema ich hier bereits hingewiesen habe, meint:

First, the short answer. There is a clear and concise response for a woman wondering whether she should marry a man after discovering he struggles with pornography: no. She should not do it.

Dann, etwas später, beginnt er mit der langen Antwort:

Next, the long answer. The long answer still responds with, “No. You should not marry a man who has an active problem with pornography.”

Zuletzt gibt er einen weisen Rat für junge Frauen:

In the pornographic culture in which we live, fewer and fewer women will find it possible to find a young man who has not had at least some exposure to pornography. In such a world women who are looking for a man who has never viewed pornography or who does not consider it a temptation will be disappointed. This reality does not mean, however, that godly women should settle for a man with an ongoing porn struggle. Instead what she should look for is a guy who is honest about a struggle, is seeking to get ahead of the problem with various kinds of accountability, has a track record of victory, and is passionate about growing in purity by getting very close to the Christ who alone can forgive and cleanse former sins.

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